Last night in my dream I had images of flooding. I was visiting a large group of people who lived in an apartment which was part of a series of old Victorian-style apartments on a river bank. I was up one tier, and the river kept rising to the level of my car which was parked outside on the street.

I ran outside to the car, and after some fumbling with keys, losing the needed ones, I managed to get my car parked on the crest of the hill. I ran back downhill - I think I had a child to take with me. I’m not sure if others in the apartment were planning to evacuate, but I sure was. This wasn’t the first flooding incident in that neighborhood.

Then I noticed a large family of impoverished Hispanic women and children returning to an apartment further down toward the river. I ran down to warn them, in Spanish, of the river’s rising. The mothers were unmotivated to do anything to save themselves or their children. It seemed the government had harassed them and they just got their children back, and felt overwhelmed and traumatized by the events they’d been through. They could not handle any more, so they refused to worry about the flooding.

Then I saw a family next door to them, living in a more prosperous looking apartment. I asked them how they survived, and they said they just shut the door. I guess their apartment was waterproof! They were sitting in there relaxing and watching TV, undisturbed.

I ran back uphill and the river started rising again. I had done what I could to warn the women and try to save their children. Now it was time for me to save my own and get out of that neighborhood.

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A dream of flooding indicates feeling overwhelmed and unable to cope. I believe this dream indicates that I feel overwhelmed by my blogging activities. One of the blogs is for families falsely accused by CPS, and I feel the apartment filled with traumatized women and children represents that blog. It is my most popular blog, hence, closer to the river. The other apartments could be symbols of other blogs I’ve been working on. I didn’t see a Geniyyah Healing blog, but it may have been there. I didn’t visit all the apartments.

The contrast between the two riverside apartments could indicate what it takes to be a successful blogger. I feel I’ve been part of the women/children group for many years. I started blogging in 2001, partly as a result of being traumatized by the 9/11 tragedy. I raised children from 1973 to the present time - that’s almost 35 years of being a mom. My youngest is now 17.

The waterproof apartment had three relaxing people in it. They were prosperous, with a plush white carpet on the floor. No children were there. I need to be part of that group of bloggers who are capable and competent because they have fewer constant worries in life.

The people I was visiting with uphill were other bloggers. None of them seemed ready to bail. But I’ve decided to work on multiple blogs because my interests in life are so diverse, and I’m having a hard time keeping all of them up to date. I’ve heard of at least one professional blogger who worked on eighteen blogs, updating them daily. Wow, I’ve got less blogs than that, and am lucky to get to some of them twice monthly. In the world of blogging, that’s completely unacceptable.

I’ll be working on this issue, privately, trying to do the right thing by keeping blogs up to date or eliminating blogs that don’t work for me. Geniyyah Healing won’t be one of those - I see my future as being deeply involved in spiritual healing issues, so expect to keep seeing me here.

I used to be very into astrology. I had books to tell me how to create the charts, an ephemeris, and even the special papers with pre-drawn charts to fill in. I got pretty good at it and learned all the houses, signs, and symbols and what they meant. I could tell you what all the planets, aspects, and everything else meant. This was in the days before computerized astrology programs made it easy to get the information.

I’m aware that certain signs are considered to be more compatible than others. And after 55 years of living (my 55th birthday is today) I’ve got this to say about that.

Astrologically speaking, signs of each element are supposed to be compatible with each other.

Fire Element Signs: Aires, Leo, Saggitarius

Air Element Signs: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius

Earth Element Signs: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn

Water Element Signs: Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces

Also Fire and Air signs are said to make good friends, and Earth and Water signs, the same.

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Okay, I’m here to tell you, it isn’t that simple. I was born under the sun sign, Cancer. I have had a number of relationships throughout my life, and unfortunately never found the perfect person for me unless this turns out to be Bob, who has been my boyfriend for just over a year now.

My first three relationship experiences were with Scorpio men. All three of them were supposed to be compatible, yet they turned out to be toxic relationships. After that I quit caring about finding someone compatible. My last three relationships have been with an Aquarius, a Capricorn, and a Saggitarius (Bob).

Each relationship had its good points, and bad, but I can honestly say the relationship with the Capricorn man was the easiest. He and I were almost exactly opposite on the sun sign chart - as he was born January 15 and I was born July 13. Although we got along great, we didn’t have a lot in common and that eventually convinced me to move on to find someone who wanted to do the same kinds of things I dream about doing. My Capricorn friend’s interests were never going to be the same as mine.

The relationship with the Aquarius was intriguing but had to end for my preservation of sanity. It wasn’t an easy relationship, but who said I want things to be easy? And I can say the same about my Saggitarius partner. His way of thinking is much different than mine, and I’m learning a lot by learning from him. I find that when I pay attention and try to take in his suggestions (and philosophical Saggitarians have plenty of them) I benefit. I am changing - not by being with people of my own Element, but by seeking people of other elements to teach me who they are and how they think.

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Astrological star sign compatibility is much more complex than the chart above suggests. It is based on which houses your planets are in, and how the planets aspect those of your partner’s. And even if you think you’ve got the perfect person, astrologically speaking, you may run into trouble. There are too many variables. Unless you are an expert, or have access to one, astrology is not a good indicator of who to choose as a partner. Remember me with my three Scorpio guys, none of which were good for me in the long run.

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A better way of choosing a partner is to find someone who has the same hopes and dreams as you do. And know that finding this person is luck. You have to be in the right place at the right time. You can ask the universe to help you, and intend to find the person who is right for you. For example, place yourself into a quiet, centered frame of mind, and say, “I intend that I will find the best partner to spend my life with, someone who I’ll be happy with, who will be good for me, who will encourage me to fulfill my highest potentials in life; insofar as it is for the highest and best good of all involved, so be it - and so it is.”

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I’ve read a lot of astrology books and guides. My favorites which I go back to again and again are the ones written by Linda Goodman: Sun Signs, Love Signs, and Relationship Signs. Though the compatibility guides can’t tell you whether a relationship will last forever, it will give a pretty good idea of some of the aspects of what it will be like.

Patricia Singleton started her blog, Spiritual Journey of a Lightworker, only last month, but already makes an impact with soulful biographical memoirs and a collection of inspiring posts encouraging forgiveness, honesty, and gratitude. As I read through the entire blog last night, starting with the first post and ending with the most recent, I repeatedly saw parallels between her experience of life and mine.

For example, she wrote about her Past Life Experiences but reserved judgment, writing, “I know that not everybody believes in past lives. I wasn’t sure myself for a long time.” It sounded like something I’d say. I’m interested in this phenomena and have written of my own experiences with it, but am cautious and temper my enthusiasm with a bit of old fashioned skepticism.

Also, Patricia had name issues. For a long time she rejected her childhood name, ‘Patricia’, preferring to be called ‘Pat’. That reminded me so much of what I’ve gone through with my name. I never liked my full name, Linda Jo Martin. And for a while I changed my name to something totally different - both first name and last. I even had my driver’s license changed. My father was devastated because he had named me. Then a few years ago I had a change of heart. I changed my name back to my birth name legally, and even decided to use my full name on my professional writing website, dreaded middle name included.

Patricia’s reasons for changing names are different than mine were, and she wasn’t quite as radical in her change, but when she wrote of this name issue in her blog, in her post, What’s In A Name? - it was done with passion and a determination to get the facts out in the open. I was impressed and reminded of my own name journey. At the end of the article she invites us to call her Patricia - which I found touching, and it made me feel like a part of her spiritual family. So there’s another reason I felt synchronicity with my own experiences while reading her blog.

I also identified strongly with Patricia’s posting on Forgiveness, Done In Layers. She talks about accessing anger, and releasing it. As different aspects of the anger surface, the release needs to be done again and again. I found her explanation of the process of forgiveness to be accurate and insightful.

I count myself fortunate that I’ve met Patricia and connected with her group of lightworkers online (see her blogroll!) . . . I met her this week at Chris Garrett’s new message board, Authority Blogger. Thank you Chris, for providing the opportunity for bloggers to connect.

Patricia had a difficult early life. Her blog tells the story of her childhood, and how she overcame adversity, embraced forgiveness, and became aware of her status as a lightworker, here to teach and heal humanity. It is a rocky path many of us walk upon to reach a place of understanding wherein we can help others effectively. Patricia is one of those whose road led from treachery to truth, from misery to maturity. This is definitely a blog worth reading. I’ve subscribed to her emails so I won’t have to miss another episode. Long live this blog! . . . and may the light of this lightworker be known to many.

The link: Spiritual Journey of a Lightworker by Patricia Singleton.